#148 Sensory Sex, Trauma, and Loving Your Labia - With Dr. Jess
Shameless Sex Podcast
Published on Mar 3, 2020
Author, Podcaster, and Sex Educator extraordinaire, Dr. Jess O’Reilly joins us to answer your sex questions:
How do I initiate sex when I lack confidence in the bedroom?
Is there something wrong with my labia?
How do I talk to my partner about my sexual trauma, and how can I heal?
What are your sex and dating tips for someone who is visually impaired?
Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.
About our guest: An award-winning speaker, Dr. Jess O’Reilly has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess is also co-host of the popular podcast Sex With Dr. Jess, and she contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media such as Women’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. To learn more visit sexwithdrjess.com
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