#147 How to Master Long-Distance Relationships - With Aida Manduley
Shameless Sex Podcast
Published on Feb 25, 2020
Aida Manduley teaches us all about long-distance relationships and how to keep them fresh, connected and spicy.
Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20.
Aida Manduley, LCSW is an award-winning Latinx activist, trauma-focused therapist, and sexuality educator known for big earrings and tackling taboos. Their politics are radical, their life is ridiculous, and their penchant for irreverence as intimacy is notorious. Manduley's current focus areas include community accountability, healing justice, and work centering queer and trans people of color. To learn more visit http://www.aidamanduley.com/
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