Kink Communication 101: Safewords, Boundaries & Real Consent Tips for Men
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Published on Feb 1, 2026
This video explains how consent works in kink and roleplay chat, featuring Arousr chat host MaddieMay, an intimacy expert. Men learn how safewords are used, how boundaries are set, and what real consent looks like before and during roleplay with women online. The video covers respectful kink communication, common mistakes to avoid, and safe roleplay practices focused on privacy, trust, and clear consent.
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