Is non-monogamy for me? with Melissa Lesane | Navigating Relationships
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Published on Oct 7, 2021
Valuable in-depth self-reflections for considering non-monogamy in your life.
Melissa works with individuals, intimate partners and other relational groups who want to focus on relationship and sexuality issues.
She values and inspires intentionality, creativity and pleasure in relationships. She enjoys working with folx that are curious about non-monogamy and those who are currently in non-monogamous relationships. She’s passionate about working with people of color in exploring and navigating non-monogamy.
As a sex-positive therapist, she enthusiastically affirms and seeks to work with those within the LGBTQ+, kink, BDSM, sex work and open-relating communities. Her strength is to personally connect with you through playfulness, compassion and curiosity, that will hopefully feel safe and encouraging for you to explore Self and how you relate with others. She values vulnerability and intentionality, and her presence is empathic, supportive, creative and embracing of life’s nuances.
Please reach out if you have any questions or curiosities about working with Melissa, that she can address with you.
www.melissalesane.com
Navigating Relationships was sponsored by Segpay, SextPanther, ePlay, Chaturbate, Flirt4Free and @Adult Time
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