#157 Masculine Sexual Mastery (and Multiple Orgasms!) - With Matthew Ayriss
Shameless Sex Podcast
Published on Apr 14, 2020
How can men become the master of their sexual energy? Why is this helpful? And how can they learn to up their orgasm game both alone and with partners?
We also answer a sex question about opening up the relationship as a means of satisfying differing sex drives.
Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.
About our guest: Matthew Ayriss is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Shamanic-Somatic Healer, Transformational Life Coach, & Conscious Content Creator. He facilitates immersive experiences, men's retreats, Tantra and transformational festivals, men's circles, and group coaching programs across the world. To learn more visit themasculinepillar.com/. And to receive a discount on his program use code Shamelesssex at checkout.
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